The Battle of the Will.

Our emotions catapults our will to greater heights. The point where the problem lies in adulthood is the defeated ability to confide with ones emotions. The misconception that prevents the exceeded victory in the battle of the will is not to put off but to put on the emotional synergy in conflict resolution. Moreover to handle the  outcome in some manner of acceptability:  the ability to come in terms with ones true limitations. 

The Motives Behind Our Actions.

How the world have been seen through the microscopic lens in the meta way is by far crucial to say the least.  The same goes for the vigilantes that sees the  way of life as suchlike a claptrap. A group of phonies can only last for a moment and their flattering words will soon cease since vanity is their best recipe.  Whether being a group of green berets with such a sounding cymbal that clunk its way to  the mountain top proclaiming victory at the war front, the most common questions that is commonly ignored is why war is waged for the purpose of peace in the first place when such thing is nonexistent.  No sense in digging into some of the unanswered  prejudice.There is no evidence that supports such a proclaimed argument that war is inevitable when all subject have not been answered.  Mostly, concerning the condition of the human heart, the ulterior motive behind all evil. Such lies we tell to each other but who can deceive his Maker?

New Morality

Thanks to those who have brought about the moral standards and the true value of nobility.  But beneath the veneer of moderation and self consciousness is the chief end of obliquity . But that is not all, the man who has been going to the group social meeting religiously is over noetic in what the odds are concerning others that don't belong in his little circle.  Perfectionism can seem odd to others but nevertheless seems just right to the culprit . As we find out that the only cure to limitless pretense in bigotry is to  accepting fault and by coming to a place of repentance: bringing the  problem down to its roots.  The problem with this is that it has been removed from just the name to a different stage in regards to meaning.  The new morality has replaced the old one and  is now the world's greatest concern. 

The Wrong Idea of Marriage

Marriage is such a misrepresentation. One of the first thing that is valuable to humankind is marriage, a gift that comes from the Lord. We are not talking points here about how to be a good husband or a good wife. There isn't much anyone to point out as such a person.  However, marriage is much more substance as in community integration than for the sharing of two lives. Marriage is what makes up a sane community and the only possibility that differentiate us from animal kingdom. The great thing that is seen in most of the youth movement is that the majority of them love the idea of marriage in the essence of sharing of lives.However the more of it, in the category of integration of community should be best left alone for the grown ups.

Dealing with Change

Sudden changes always occurs when you least expect it. You may be sitting in a place of comfort and within a flash your situation changes. Nobody likes it when sudden changes occur. There are certain events that can keep a person bugged down like a loss of employment, a home, a loved one and other things beyond our control. But to have a perspective of change and an optimistic viewpoint will help to draw out a picture of relief. The worse thing to do is by trying to analyze the outcome or even internalizing the change altogether. It is best to reach a place of anticipation in looking forward for the next great adventure. Looking at the bright side and knowing that the future is far greater than the latter. As C.S Lewis puts it, the new thrill begins at the moment the old thrill dies.

Wrong Side of the Fence.

The only thing that you have is God.  The problem is that we have been seeking satisfaction on the other side of the fence.  The problem is that when we seek out the door that opens up any kind of stuff to exploit, we  are in danger of drifting away from the precious things we have at the present moment. The value in family can be exchanged with fame and fortune.  A young woman can be exchange her virginity in search of social identity.  The truth can be replaced with falsehood at times and it will not be available when needed.  God is with man, man is not with God.  Man is with other offers and desperately in need of God and far removed from the truth.

The Realist.

The only right side of the fence is being on the pathway that leads to action.  The pessimists and the optimists are on both the wrong side of the fence. They are further removed from the action.  The pessimists never started, the optimists believe to start  in the near future.  The realist is the person that opens the door and matches in.

Marriage as a bank.

Think of marriage as a bank. In each transaction, whatever you put into the deposit box is what you get out of it. The health of your bank account depends on the amount of money you deposit into it back and the same literally goes with marriages. The health of the marriage depends on how much love, time and care of affection is deposited into it more. A man can withdraw from his bank up until the teller or banker hands him an overdraft slip. The same for the man that withdrew love, affection and time up until the wife shuts him out of intimacy. 
The man should think on marriage terms as a contract to perform. A contract to always add and not to take away.  A man should walk up to his house just as if he is going to a banking institution.  In fact,  to think of his home as a bank with an intent to deposit or withdraw what was already deposited. If you deposit large amounts of money, you will laugh all the way to the bank.   You deposit nothing into your marriage, you get nothing.