Marriage as a bank.

Think of marriage as a bank. In each transaction, whatever you put into the deposit box is what you get out of it. The health of your bank account depends on the amount of money you deposit into it back and the same literally goes with marriages. The health of the marriage depends on how much love, time and care of affection is deposited into it more. A man can withdraw from his bank up until the teller or banker hands him an overdraft slip. The same for the man that withdrew love, affection and time up until the wife shuts him out of intimacy. 
The man should think on marriage terms as a contract to perform. A contract to always add and not to take away.  A man should walk up to his house just as if he is going to a banking institution.  In fact,  to think of his home as a bank with an intent to deposit or withdraw what was already deposited. If you deposit large amounts of money, you will laugh all the way to the bank.   You deposit nothing into your marriage, you get nothing.